SEPARATION, DIVORCE AND SETTLEMENT MEDIATION
Mediation is a process in which a neutral trained professional helps family members resolve disputes in a structured, cooperative environment. Unlike traditional litigation, the mediator serves the needs, values and ideas of both parties—-emphasizing shared, mutually agreed on solutions over competition, debate and stalemates. A mediator is not a therapist, not an evaluator and not a legal advocate: their aim is to help the couple (not lawyers or a judge) steer decisions and family direction.
There is a lot of research showing that parties who mediate
save time and money arguing
maintain confidentiality and privacy
create flexible agreements that fit their unique situation (versus a one-size-fits all approach lawyers and courts tend to take)
are more satisfied with the end result
are likely to recommend mediation to other families going through similar issues
What Issues Are Covered in Divorce Mediations?
A separation agreement can be as broad or as detailed as you want it to be. It can be fully customized to address your family’s needs, whatever they may be. A separation agreement may dictate:
Who will remain in the marital home
Whether one spouse will provide postseparation support to the other
The division of property and assets
Which bills each spouse is responsible for paying
Child custody and visitation
Whether one spouse will provide child support payments
EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION
In equitable distribution states, such as North Carolina and Florida, assets acquired and liabilities incurred during the marriage, individually by one spouse or jointly by both, are considered marital property and are subject to equitable distribution.
Mediation guides parties to make agreements on property division terms during a divorce. The goal is for both parties to take control in deciding on how assets and debts are divided versus having a judge decide.