How we will work together

I bring a dynamic, candid and clarifying presence that propels individuals navigating complex life transitions into their best possible future. Our work together helps all involved to:

  • Clarify their values and vision for their life and key relationship

  • Improve their emotional regulation and self-awareness

  • Master the process of agreement making

  • Prepare thoughtfully for negotiation, mediation, or co-parenting conversations

  • Avoid destructive conflict cycles

  • Make sustainable, self-honoring decisions

 

I orient our focus towards collaboration and context. I don’t see conflict as something that exists in isolation—and I don’t approach resolution as a one-size-fits-all solution. That being said: mediation and conscious uncoupling sessions follow a structure that keeps everyone clear, aware and moving forward toward common goals.

Everything I do is grounded in the broader landscape of each client’s life. Outside of our sessions, I actively coordinate with lawyers, educators, therapists, coaches, and other support professionals. Clients get connected into a web of care—ensuring that the resources around them are aligned, responsive, and tailored to their unique needs. Whether it’s through direct support or finding you with the right therapist, legal advocate, educator, or other specialist, I offer personalized guidance to ensure you’re getting exactly what you need—when you need it most (and not anything you don’t).

Working together means gaining not only clarity in the moment, and access to a deeper, enriched support system that fosters long-term growth, healing, and forward movement.

My Approach

With over 25 years of experience as a leadership psychologist, organizational development expert and relational coach, I bring both clinical expertise and a deep commitment to human connection. Drawing on a unique background in parenting, psychology, and organizational leadership, my strength lies in creating the necessary conditions for change, and making high-stakes decisions with clarity, integrity, and resilience.

At the core of my work is a simple belief: even in conflict, most people want to act with integrity. We want to honor ourselves without causing harm to others. Yet under stress, our ability to think clearly, communicate effectively, and make wise decisions often breaks down. That’s where I come in.

As a mediator, I help create the conditions for constructive, truthful conversations that lead to meaningful, lasting agreements. Most adults—and even experienced leaders—aren’t taught how to craft agreements that support both individual needs and group wellbeing. In mediation, we don’t just focus on what the agreement is—we also explore how it’s made, ensuring both parties understand the relational and practical dynamics that support sustainable outcomes.

When mediation isn’t the right fit, or when deeper personal clarity or relational repair is needed, conflict coaching provides one-on-one support. Through coaching, clients reconnect with their core values, work through past wounds, and begin to shift patterns—especially important in ongoing dynamics like co-parenting.

My goal is to strengthen our collective relational capacity and resolve the roadblocks that interfere with our compassion and self-respect.

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Dr Krystal White, PhD

Clinical Psychologist, COMMUNITY CATALYST, CERTIFIED COPARENTING MEDIATOR

Dr. Krystal White is a leadership psychologist with more than 15 years of experience helping people and their teams thrive. In addition to being an author, she is a change management strategist, leadership development expert, motivational speaker, and executive consultant for individuals and corporations.

For over a decade, she partnered with military leaders in the medical department, most recently serving as the Chief of the Workforce Engagement Office at Landstuhl Regional Medical Center. There she designed and directed renowned professional leadership programs, served as an organizational culture advisor and build high performing teams.

Krystal White, Ph.D., is a board-certified clinical psychologist and leadership expert with a long-standing commitment to improving our relational resiliency and capacity to care for one another.   She specializes in developmental and comprehensive assessments, men’s wellness and optimizing group performance.

Dr. White currently focuses on training everyday citizens to apply leadership principles in their families, neighborhoods, and civic life. She is the founder of 5013c nonprofit dedicated to cultivating social capital and fostering an ethos of friendship in day to day interactions.  She has authored five books that promote self-examination and relational competence.

Dr. White completed a medical fellowship in developmental psychology at Madigan Army Medical Center and is military-trained in organizational leadership. She served as the Developmental Health Consultant for European Regional Command, emphasizing parenting skills and community assets.

She holds a Master’s degree in Christian Leadership from Fuller Theological Seminary, along with an additional Master’s in Psychology with a focus on the integration of spirituality and psychology. She is certified in CoParenting Mediation, Food As Medicine, ADHD Evaluation, Psychopharmacology and Supplement Use, Spectrum Development, Fierce Conversations and Outward Mindset.

A seasoned executive coach, curriculum designer, and group performance expert, Dr. White has served as a radio personality, podcaster, fitness instructor, and global community mentor.

She currently resides in Asheville, NC, and Tampa Bay, FL—and works with clients globally.

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Nuts and Bolts of Working Together

Starting something new—especially when emotions are high—can feel daunting. That’s why I’ve designed a process that’s clear, respectful, and paced to meet you where you are. Each step is meant to reduce stress, support thoughtful decision-making, and give both parents space to be heard.

Here’s what you can expect:

1.      Discovery Call: 15 minutes Free of Charge

  1. Individual Intake Sessions – We begin by meeting with each parent individually to understand your situation, needs, and goals.

  2. Individual Child Assessment – We may directly interact with and assess your child’s behavior, functioning and well-being. In other cases, our assessment is indirect through collecting measures or reviewing past reports.

  3. Joint Mediation Sessions – As appropriate, we bring parents together in structured sessions to work through key decisions.

  4. Customized Agreements – You’ll walk away with clear written summaries or draft plans to move forward. In certain circumstances, you’ll also have report on your child’s functioning.

Scheduling

Scheduling only occurs once both parents sign consent forms and an initial payment is made.

Three Hour Mediations sessions are typically booked 4-10 weeks in advance

Initial sessions are typically booked 4 weeks in advance

Ongoing coaching or resolutions sessions are booked 2 weeks in advance.


Costs

Per Session Plan: 75% 0aid 75% upfront, 25% five business days before the final session

  •  $275 per 75 minute joint session follow up

  •  $150 per 55 minutes administrative hour

Retainers: 50% paid upfront, 50% pain one month following first scheduled session

These sessions are not covered by insurance.  Payments can be ACH transfer or by credit card with a service fee attached.


Cancellations

In person assessment and medication appointments tend to be scheduled 2-8 weeks out. Due to the high demand of these services, we ask that you cancel these appointments within 10 business days so that other families have a reasonable opportunity to shift their schedule to take your spot.  A rescheduling fees will be charged:

$100 will occur if you change these appointments within 10 business days

$150 will occur if you change these appointments within 5 business days

$250 will occur if you change these appointments within 1 business day

Less than 24 hour notice or no shows forfeit the assessment cost unless in extreme circumstances verifiable by report (e.g. accidents, doctor’s notes etc)

Individual sessions, feedback sessions and remote sessions require 48 hours notice or a $100 rescheduling fee will be charged.  Notice between 24 -47 will be charged $150.  Less than 24 hours or no shows will be charged $250 or forfeit of that session.


Timing

Individual sessions tend to be 50 minutes

Child assessment range from 35-240 minutes

 

Couples Coaching session tend to be 60-85 minutes

Mediation sessions tend to be 50-180 minutes


Make Momentum

Memorandum Of Understanding

A Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) in the context of parenting mediation is a written summary of the agreements that the parents develop during mediation.

It is not usually legally binding on its own. It serves as a foundation for legal documents (like a court order or divorce parenting plan) when needed.

 

WHY SEPERATING PARENTS NEED ONE:

It provides clarity, structure, and a written record of what both parents agreed to.

  • It often helps clarify future misunderstandings, as each parent can refer back to what was agreed.

  • It serves as the template for future agreements that the co-parents can edit without the guidance of a professional.

  • It’s faster, less expensive, and less adversarial than litigation.

What’s included in an MOU created through Parenting Mediation?

An MOU may include:

  • Parenting schedule (e.g. weekdays, weekends, holidays, vacations)

  • Decision-making responsibilities (e.g. education, health, religion)

  • Communication methods between parents

  • Transportation logistics (who drops off/picks up, where)

  • Exceptions to the normal operating agreements

  • Guidelines for relocation possibilities, handling mental health challenges, and introducing new partners.

  • Dispute resolution mechanisms (e.g. what to do if there's disagreement later)

  • Special considerations (e.g. for children with disabilities, summer camps or internships, or specific routines)

Key Characteristics of A MOU:

Neutral language: It reflects agreements only , no taking sides

Drafted by mediator:  Usually written by the mediator after the joint sessions, based on what was agreed

Editable: Clients can review and revise it together on their own

Not automatically legally enforceable: It's not a court order—parents must submit it to court (if desired) to make it legally binding

Used as a reference: Parents use it as a guide to co-parenting agreements, even without going to court

Examples:

“Both parties agree that the children will reside with Parent A during Thanksgiving week and Parent B during Christmas week of the same calendar year. The following year, they will switch holidays, residing with Parent B during Thanksgiving week, and with Parent A during Christmas week.”

“For birthdays, children will reside with the parent who typically would have that child on that calendar day (no exceptions or changes will be made).”

“Both parties agree that they will not ask their children to provide input or guidance on changing the overnight schedules without the other parent present until the oldest child turns twelve.”.

Turning the MOU into a Legal Document

In many jurisdictions:

  • You can submit the MOU to court (often through an attorney or during court) to be entered as a stipulated order or parenting plan.

  • Once approved, it becomes enforceable by law (e.g. contempt of court if not followed).

 

ALL OF RESOLUTIONARY’S CO-PARENTING MEDIATIONS INCLUDE A MEMORANDUM OF UNDERSTANDING...

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